Wednesday, February 18, 2026

 Hi Papa

Happy CNY!!

This year is very different because Meimei is in NYC and only Jiejie & I are celebrating CNY.  They are so sensible, I'm sure you are very proud of them.

From your forever girlfriends




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Thursday, January 30, 2025

CNY 2025

 Papa

Again, we see now your gf all become young adult liao



Miss u much

all of us


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Sunday, February 11, 2024

CNY 2024

 Dear Papa

Look at our dinos, growing up well and pretty.



Missing u
all of us



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Sunday, April 2, 2023

Jiejie Dino Graduated

 Dear Papa

Our jiejie dino graduated le.  She's big girl le, she entered adult workforce in Feb 2023 and now she's a graduate.  She has done us proud, papa.  It's another milestone and a new journey for her.  Wish her every success, papa.

If you and mummy still here, I'm sure both of you will be very proud and will be in this picture.  Miss u all so much.


Love
Girlfriends



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Monday, January 23, 2023

CNY 2023

 Dear Papa

It's CNY again, this time we can gather as per normal as there's no more covid-19 restriction.  You mummy fell yesterday and she's now in hospital (under observation).


Your Dinos



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Saturday, December 31, 2022

Bday present from our dinosaurs

 Papa

Our dinosaurs bought me a matching earring (arrived today) for my bday.  They gave me a pendant for mother's day and this year they bought me a matching earring.

2022 Birthday Present

2020 Mother's Day Present
Wife


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Miss Mum

 Papa

I miss mum so much.  Pls take care of her up there when u see her.  I will join u all when my time here is up.  Today is the last day of 2022 and stepping into 2023.  Time flies, u left us for almost 15 years and mum left us 1+ years already.  2019 Xmas was the last xmas celebration mum had with us before covid hit us in 2020 & 2021.  Things start to return to almost normal in Aug 2022 and we get to gather again in big groups.

                          Xmas 2019

                         Xmas 2022

Wife



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Saturday, December 10, 2022

Xmas Decoration

 Dear Papa

It has been a long time since we decorate your resting place.  This time I did it with jiejie and hope you will like it.



Love
Wife & gf



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Wednesday, October 26, 2022

Elder Dino big girl le

 Dear Papa

Our dinosaur big girl le, she turns legal age 21 already and she's an adult now.  I hope you are glad to see her grow up well and healthy.  She's a young lady now.

Our little dinosaur 18 yo already. Pretty young girl.

  




Wife



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Wednesday, February 2, 2022

GONG XI FA CAI

 Papa

It's another CNY.  This year is different as Ah ma is not with us anymore.  It's a painful CNY cos we miss ah ma very much.  Please help to take care of ah ma up there.  Thank you.



Your girlfriends


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Friday, July 9, 2021

13 Years Already

 Papa

It's been 13 years already.  Do u still remember us?  Our dinos have grown so much and I'm sure u will be proud of them just like I do.

See you when we meet again.

Always yours

Wife and Dinos



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Wednesday, May 12, 2021

Happy 53rd Birthday

 Hubby


生日快乐, it's your birthday today.  Your girlfriends remember your birthday and they told me "mummy, it's papa's bday tmr".  So sweet, they didn't forget u.



Wife


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Monday, February 15, 2021

GONG XI FA CAI 2021

 Papa

This year's CNY is very different as we still have Covid-19 playing tricks on us.  We have a lot of restrictions (8 visitors max per day and limited to 2 household visits per day).  We have visiting schedules in order to adhere to all these rules.

Our usual schedule on the 1st day has changed.  Went to Karen's place on the 1st day of CNY and my mum's place only on the 3rd day.

Didn't visit you for the past 1.5 years due to Covid-19 restrictions.  I believe you will understand as I'm sure you will want us to remain safe and healthy during this pandemic.  We will pay you a visit once the situation improves with lesser restrictions.











We still miss you much.

All of us


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Thursday, July 9, 2020

12 Years Already

Dear Daddy

Today is the 12 years marked and the memory is still very fresh.  12 years ago, you were here at this time but gone in another 1.5 hours' time.  It's still painful but it is bearable after knowing that you were relieved from your pain after this.

Your elder princess made a video of you and posted on IG.
  

Loving u
all of us

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Tuesday, May 12, 2020

Happy 52nd Birthday Daddy

Papa

Happy Birthday...we never forget all your big days.  We are still fighting with Covid-19 since it started during CNY and it got worse each day.  SG started Circuit Breaker on 7 April with a 4 weeks extension from 4 May till 1st June 2020.  We suppose the govt will ease CB on 1st Jun and gradually opening up on 2nd June.  I'm now working from home and mei is having 1 month sch holiday (not June holiday for this year).  As for Jie, as usual...'nua' at home.  We enjoy our bonding time during this period jux that they can't meet their boyfriends.  This year is very special for everyone and very challenging.  It might be a good experience for the kids, at least they been through 1 round of crisis and pandemic.  Not a bad life experience at all.

Watch over us as you always do, ok?

Love u still
All of us

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Sunday, May 10, 2020

Mother's Day

Hi Papa

Our princesses are now so sensible and sweet.  They bought me this pendant for Mother's Day, ain't you proud of them?  We had our all time favourite dish (chilli crab) and sambal kangkong.

 

Love u muchie
Your girlfriends


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Saturday, January 25, 2020

GONG XI FA CAI

Papa


GONG XI FA CAI.  Our princesses have grown up so fast and so much.  Sri went back hometown for good already and our princesses are coping well.

Wife

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Wednesday, January 1, 2020

Happy New Year Hubby

Dear

In 2019, our Princesses found their 1st Prince and of course we are unsure whether will be their lifetime soulmate.  As long as they are happy, we will be happy too right?  Please watch over them and keep them safe in whatever the situation may be.  I'm sure you are happy to see our princesses have grown up so beautifully (inside and outside).  Please continue to be with us till we meet again.


Still your wife & princesses

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Thursday, November 21, 2019

22nd Wedding Anniversary

Dear

If you were still here, we would have celebrated our 22nd wedding anniversary together with our dinos.  Miss u

Wife

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Tuesday, July 9, 2019

It's been 11 years already

老公

十一年了,你还好吗? 你要一直看着我和我们的两只恐龙哟。


依然挂念你的我们

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Sunday, May 12, 2019

Dear Daddy

It's your birthday today, you turn 51yo if you are still here.  Happy birthday to you.



Still loving you
girlfriends

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Tuesday, February 5, 2019

CNY 2019

Dear Papa

Gong Xi Fa Cai!!!  See your 2 princesses so big girl and do not want to do the traditional way of pai nian le.


Love
Girlfriends

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Wednesday, November 21, 2018

It's our 21st Wedding Anniversary

Dear Papa

If you were here, we will be celebrating our anniversary today.  Thinking back, our marriage only lasted for such a short period.  Glad that we had many many happy memories and best of all, our 2 little dinos.

Thank you & see you again

Still missing u
Wife

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Thursday, July 26, 2018

Found our long lost "鸡丝粿条干" - so near yet so far away

Dear Papa

Today I found out that the uncle selling fish ball noodle at nearby office canteen is the uncle selling our long lost shredded chicken kway teow after 12 years.  We have been searching for them for the past 20 years and didn't know they are actually so near to me!!!

At that very moment, my heart crunched cos my heart was saying 'wasted...papa not here already'.  Uncle & auntie said that they will invite me to their place at CCK when they cook this shredded chicken noodle again.

Papa, I found them..they didn't move to Toa Payoh..they are in Woodlands.  I will show you the picture if I really get to taste the kway teow again.

Love
Wife

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Monday, July 9, 2018

10th Anniversary

Dear Papa


It has been 10 years already, our kids have grown so much and wish you were here to go through every of the growing stage with us.  We all miss you much and till we meet again.
Your GFs

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Friday, February 16, 2018

CNY 2018

Dear Papa

Happy doggie year, we miss u much!!  Mei had food poisoning from school on Wednesday, now she can't eat alot of stuff other than medicine.


Your GFs

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Sunday, July 9, 2017

It's been 9 years...

Dear Papa

9 years without you...still missing you much.  Recently we have been looking back at photos and videos of our family outings.  We watched our video playing at IMM water park and we ran to you calling 'daddy daddy 跟我玩' and heard your voice replying 'daddy 没有带衣服,妳自己玩.'  Miss those days and missing you daddy.

Miss u much
your babies

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Sunday, June 18, 2017

Happy Father's Day

Dear Papa

Happy Father's Day!!!


Miss you much
GFs

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Friday, May 12, 2017

Happy Birthday Daddy


Dear Beloved Daddy

We still miss you much!!!


Always Loving you
Princesses

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Wednesday, February 1, 2017

CNY 2017

Dear Daddy

Today is the 5th day of CNY.

Joey recalled many memories of you and she told us 2 days ago.  You are still living in our hearts and we can't believe that you are gone for 8.5years.

Loving u
all of us

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Sunday, June 5, 2016

Papa's New Car 31 May 2016

Dear Papa

Our New Toy


Your girlfriends

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Friday, February 20, 2015

CNY Day 1 (19 Feb 2015)

Gong Xi Fa Cai to Daddy

Love from ur princesses

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Thursday, November 20, 2014

All doing well and fine



Hey Bro ,


Its been a long long time i visited you here. This year, we all visited you during Chinese New Year.But i don't know how to upload the pictures here so please forgive me.

We saw your children during Amelia's 21st Bday at mum's house. Very very happy to see them so pretty , healthy and growing well.Please do keep them these way from up above.

You know, during these past years without you, lots of changes take place. All your nieces and nephews all grown up and some are even working now. Things and people changes every time now and then. Some good some bad. Happiness and sadness. All these make me realized one thing, LIFE IS SHORT! we should learn to cherish whoever is still around all of us. Really don't wish to meet only when one is ready to go.We will really regret till the last day of our lives!


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Saturday, February 1, 2014

6th CNY w/o papa

Our dearest papa,
 
Happy CNY 2014

 
 
 
Love,
Girlfriends


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Saturday, November 23, 2013

PSLE

Hi Daddy

I passed my PSLE and I hope I can get into Jurong Secondary School.  Daddy u mux help me ok?

Love,
Jie Kong Long <3 p="">

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Sunday, May 12, 2013

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Dear Hubby

Happy Birthday!!! 45th birthday but w/o u the past 5 yrs.  Only can wish u thru here, u received not? u felt it not?

Love
Wife + Princesses

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Monday, February 11, 2013

2013 蛇年

Dear Daddy


恭喜發財!!

Your dearest princesses

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Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Christma*******

Hey brother,
believe you had a wonderful christmas up there with Dad. It's been a long time since the last we talk. Miss the good old Saturday when we were at mum's house. Remember, the soon kuey, char tau kuey , mee hoon kuey etcs. We never stop having these goodies. Even now the children love to eat them. We always buy during saturdays at mums. Many a time we would think of you and recalled the memories we all had in mum's house or mind. Many many many sweet memories of you and your children and wife.

Should have let you talk on that day instead of asking you to rest. Really really missed those days. Now want to talk to you can only type here, very upset and unreluctant. But what to do? 

By the way, we had  christmas gathering at Jo house on Sun. Everyone were there except your children. Understand there was a Birthday party going on.The cousins bought present for your 2 princesses. hope can pass it to them. Glad that they are growing very well and healthy. Soon , your eldest daughter will be a teenage soon! Time really flies! Still remember, Jolyn was only a little baby when i carried her. Now, she grew so much. As for Jaslyn, still so bubbly  and happy as ever.I really hope and wish that they will grow and stay healthy and be very very happy and be loved deeply by every souls they meet in their whole lives!

Brother(with Dad), Please Blessed Them And Protect Them With All Your Mighty Strength from Up There! 


Karen

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Sunday, October 14, 2012

Hey bro, it's been a long time. My children ,me and Alan  just came back from Thailand. We were holidaying for 4 days. Everyday my children will tell me where is this place and that place. They try hard to remember the last time when they were there with you and the others. We went to MBK on the first day when we were there but because we felt very tired travelling by the MRT then the BTS. So in the end we shortened the shopping and went back to hotel. Cos the girls already planned what they want to do so on the second day we finish almost the whole of platinum mall and wholesale mall and the night market you brought them to. They even bring me to Big C which is near city plaza. We wanted to go to Laprao but is too far. I checked and realised the place you stayed had new condominium nearby. On the 3rd day, we went back to MBK again. This time I brought them up to the 6th and7th floor. They instantly shouted! Mom! {This is where  uncle CH brought us! You see this is the shop gugu buy the bag for us and here we buy the little toy dolls and then this is where jo got lost then this is the McDonald  where we were suppose to wait for him.} I started to tear ...... I did not expect they still remember the every  places you had with all of them,  The expressions on their faces showed they still remember you and think of you dearly. There was silence for awhile after showing me around your every memories they had with you.
I am so touched they still have you in their heart and mind. And I hope they will remember you as long as they lived. Brother , thank you again for looking after my children during those times and hope you will blessed and looked after them from up aboved.


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Monday, July 9, 2012

4th Anniversary

4th Anniversary


From all of us who still miss u

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Monday, January 23, 2012

GONG XI FA CAI

Daddy


Gong Xi Fa Cai!!!

Love Always
Girlfriends

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Sunday, January 8, 2012

Gone were the days

Hubby
Those were the days we looked forward for u to come back from BKK and go outing with us...now...gone were they days.
Wife

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Sunday, January 1, 2012

Happy New Year to Daddy

Daddy

Happy New Year 2 U...still missing u.

From ur galfrenzzzzz

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Monday, November 21, 2011

Our 14th Wedding Anniversary

Dear Hubby
Happy Anniversary!!

Wife

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Friday, November 18, 2011

Our Gals make us proud

Hi Hubby
See our gals make us proud.
Wife

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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Princesses become Young Lady

Hubby
Our girls become pretty young lady
Wife

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Saturday, July 9, 2011

3rd Anniversary

Hubby

It has been 3 years already.





















Luv

Wife & Princesses

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Thursday, May 12, 2011

Happy Birthday

Hubby

Happy birthday!!!!

From : ur girlfriends

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Saturday, February 26, 2011

CNY WITHOUT YOU

happy new year bro! its been a long time since i blog. we had a wonderful time with all of them(mum,sisters,brother and all nieces n nephews). But u r not here.everyone seem to look happy but i know they share the same feeling as i do. austin came back for a week n we gathered at mum's house almost everyday to see him more often. u know, each time when i see him , it reminded me of you.

it break my heart totally. the memories of you start to appear right in front of me. the times we all share together seem like it happen yesterday.your voice is always heard from the kitchen to the living room.you sitting at the dinning table eating your hearts out, your funny gestures making everyone laugh.all these will always be remembered.

we visited you on the third day of CNY and also take some pictures but not uploaded yet. u will see it soon. so please , those involve in the picture taking on this day put them up quickly or else CH gugu will come and hit yr butt soon.

mum's health is not very good too , please help us to take care of her up there. if you happen to see dad, can both of you please visit anyone of us? its been a long time u n dad did not appear in our dream. will hope to see how u look like and how's life up there. i hope to see you n dad in my dream.

see you soon!

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Thursday, February 3, 2011

Gong Xi Gong Xi 2011

Dear Papa

Lunar New Year again...u enjoy your celebration up there ok? We will enjoy ours here and will be mummy's good girls.

Ur Dearest Princesses
Jolyn & Jaslyn


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Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Reunion Dinner 2011

Hubby

This is the 3rd CNY that u r not with us. Miss u, miss u much. No one in this world will treat us jux like u did...absolutely none.




Loving U
ur 3 girlfriends

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OUR BELOVED

RAYMOND TAY C.H. (1968-2008) Photobucket
Portrait of Raymond by his niece, Jo

'REPUBLIC'

Raymond Tay left behind a great legacy and many loved ones who miss him so dearly by the day. Including Mother, Wife, his 1st princess, 2nd princess, Dajie, er-jie, san-jie, baby sister, Brother, 11 nieces (Ctay, CDD, Jo, Pam, Sam, Felly, BaoBao, Hei Mei, Roc, Ray & Becky), 3 nephews (daniel, Aaron & Big Boy) and 1 grandniece (Cady). Here, the people of the "Republic" would propose to post updates on each other lives as well as post whatever memories or thoughts we have about Raymond Tay. We hope that through this we are able to fulfill his wishes, of becoming a closer family unit.

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