RAYMOND TAY C.H. (1968-2008)
Portrait of Raymond by his niece, Jo
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Happy B'Day Bro Hi CH,
Its been a long time since anyone of us wrote. Today is your b'day. This morning, Peter and myself went to your place. Wanted to see you, but the church was still not open. Well, just have to stand outside and say a little prayer for your lor. Daniel wanted to come down too after his exam this morning, but i told him "Gugu will be even happier if he would go home and study hard for his exam tomorrow". Right, Bro?? Remember the last b'day you had in your house. You were so weak but your spirit was high. Chye Hin, in us you are always so brave and strong.
Went to your house last week to give jab to your 2 girls. When Peter and myself reached your carpark. All those memories came flashing through our minds. We actually had a few moments at the carpart to compose ourselves before going up to your house. Idiot lah you, why must you leave us???????
Just hope that you are still with us lor..............................
Missing you always.
BT
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2:23:00 PM
2 Comments:
My dear bro
Though a long time since, but that does not mean you are absent from our thoughts and memories. Looking at your smiling picture at the columbarium last Sunday brings a tinge of heaviness in my heart in that you are not here with us physically anymore.
BT was right that though weak, your spirit was very high at your birthday last. Recalling that can only give me more strength to move on in life which I am sure many of us echo this same feeling. And those precious moments will always be with us wherever we go and can never be robbed off!
Never once do we all doubt the unity we have as a family and the love (though never displayed physically) we shared as siblings. Your ever selfless nature and positive attitude has made me proud to have a brother like you.
Missing you still!
Jackie
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LOVED ONES, at
May 28, 2009 at 6:48 PM
Dear RT,
It has been a long time since I last wrote to you. Nevertheless, I always remember you as my good friend inside our heart.
My dad just passed away on 29 May but this time I didn't shed a tear. I learnt alot after your departure. Thks a lot. Now, I strongly believe that at the time of death, our family members need to give us good support instead of crying because this will determine we will have a good rebirth in buddhism. As for your case, since you are a christian, I trust that you are with Lord now, happy in heaven and we should feel happy for you. From your ex-colleague, Jac Ex-SSH.
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June 4, 2009 at 10:29 PM